Being competitive isn't necessarily a bad thing, but how we harness it will depend on our actions being healthy or harmful.
When we can see that just being in the game is winning, then we can celebrate everyone who is on the playing field with us.
Strive to be better today than you were yesterday. Focus on your personal wins and celebrate them.
Don't compare yourself to others. They are where they are meant to be right now in this moment. Your journey is different than theirs.
When you focus on being your best self and putting forward your best efforts, you are in fact winning! Go celebrate your damn self today!